I'm so sorry it's been ages since I last posted. Crazy amounts to catch up on over the last 4 weeks. I've been thinking about all my friends and family a lot and hope all is good back at home. The whole camping thing here in Aotearoa has not always made it easy to e-mail on a regular basis but you have all been in my thoughts.
The other day I did manage to have a catch up on my best friends blog -thedailyone.blogspot.com. Fantastic blog by the way if you want a peek! I only got to read a bit as it was making me laugh and cry at the same time, making it hard to read the screen! Reading it brought home how much I'm missing that every day contact, daily knowing of what is happening in my family and friends world, how you are feeling, when times are shit, magical, sad and joyful. Some of my family and friends have been through really tough times and its been hard to to be with them. Reading blog gave me a glimpse of Sarah's world- I miss you so much buddy. Really what I'm trying to say in a very long winded way is I miss you dudes at home and think about you all lots-not with sadness but with huge amounts of appreciation and gratitude. Enough of the slush already!
The title of this blog comes from, in part, the values of Maori philosophy:- Self determination to be in control of our own destiny. Being lucky enough to have the chance and choice to travel, free from constraint, to be away from usual distractions, home comforts, routine as we know it, certainly has encouraged and emphasised the importance of this for me. Every day I am doing something that I have wanted to do for a long time. Everyday, no matter where we are, we are creating our destinies, being in the mystery and trusting it!
With this comes the whole learning to trust myself, trust in decisions I make, the crap as well as the good and get to know myself. I'm not sure that I do know myself that well. It is certainly an interesting, eventful, sometimes very hard but also cool journey in itself. I think the self discovery journey takes many lifetimes! Trusting myself, fully, may take sometime but I'm working on it and that's what counts.
We've spent some time in the Coromadel region where we stayed at Mahamudra Centre, Tibetan Buddhist Monastery. Such a beautiful and peaceful place. We were lucky enough to have guided meditation and as much literature to read as we want. Being there felt really good. More and more I'm starting to think about what I want in life, a lot of the time I'm not sure, or I think I'm not sure, but deep down there are a lot of 'wants', dreams, hopes that I would like to listen to more and follow. Ok I really am going to get on with this now....
So I left you as we were heading up the East Coast. We made it and have done much more! With only a few days before we leave for Asia and not ones for rushing we decided not to do the West coast of the Northern Island and spend more time in the areas we explored.
Here are a few of our adventures along the east coast before we headed into volcanic terrain! The east coast treated us really well. Totally laid back, taking the pace down to an even slower rate, almost horizontal. More stunning coast lines, tiny villages, mountain ranges and lots of rural land full of sheep and more sheep. It really felt like a major step back in time. Some of the local stores had washing powder back from the 60's, no kidding!!
Moving up the east coast, the number of carved Marae seem to out number the amount of people, especially in the rural villages. We ventured into lots of tucked away areas along the top of the east coast and east cape, visiting Marae. In the sleepy village of Manutuke (near Gisbourne) totally away from the tourist route, we were really lucky to be invited into one of the Marae that we were looking at from the outside. So many of the meeting houses have beautiful carvings of Tupuna (ancestors) and Tukutuku (woven flax panels). Inside, the Tukutuku and Kowhaiwha (painted rafters) link the Tupuna to one another. One Maori women explained that the rafters inside act as a ribcage with the cetral carved wooden pole as the heart. We were really lucky to have the chance to go in as it is very disrespectful to go in without an invite.
Much of our time along the east coast we've been going to lots of museums, galleries, Marae, looking at more tonga (treasure) and learning more about Maori culture, belief's and philosophy.
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our best bits up the East coast, Hawkes Bay and the East Cape. First, the quirky town of Napier. After an earthquake in 1931, Napier, Hastings and surrounding areas were destroyed. At the time of the rebuild, art deco was in fashion and so many of the buildings are a funky art deco style. It had lots of individual quirks but a bit too much of a resort feel along the water front for my liking.
The freedom camping had gone really well till our exciting experience in Napier! We settled down for the night in what we thought was an OK area along the marine parade, it didn't take us long to realise it was the cruising area of Napier. Not that this is a major problem (!!?!) but most of the cars parked near us were not there for the views of the lights twinkling on the water, they were after a different kind of enjoyment!! Then there were sounds of a car being stuck in the gravel beach near us and other cars skidding around us. Not only a local cruising ground but an area for people to drive their cars like twats! We had had a few beers at this point and so we were not able to move on! We woke to a trashed car next to us with the windows smashed, I assume stolen!!
It was in Napier where we were asked, by an Irish woman, to come along to a real 'kiwi experience' at a rural village close by. What a Kiwi experience!!!! It turned out to be a church fate. Cream teas, people in stocks, table full of jumble clothing and a welly boot throwing competition! A real step back in time but funny all the same. Not sure that can be the only true Kiwi experience!!
Close to Napier we visited some stunning white beaches and Te Mata Mount. One of the legends goes that the mount is the body of the chief, Rongokako, the ancestor of the Iwi (tribe) Ngati Kahungunu, one of the local tribes of the area.
Further up the coast a quick visit to Te Urewera National Park and Lake Waikaremoana (Sea of Rippling Waters). Th
e rain didn't stop and we spent most of our time talking with two kiwi hunting dudes. They had just hunted down a stag and had it hanging close by, Yum! The National park and lake has lots of Maori history but I'm worried I will start to sound like a travel guide, a bad one at that!! Apparently, Te Urewera translates 'the burnt penis'!! Despite the rain we went to see some more waterfalls before heading to Morere hot springs, just outside of Gisbourne.